Lucy Vittrup

Intimacy Intelligence Trainer & Keynote Speaker


# Proposing solutions to the loneliness epidemic and Tech – [email protected] equation.

# Keynotes, workshops and intimacy training retreats for busy digital beings.

# Supporting Female Global Leadership





Hi, I am Lucy

M.A., Keynote Speaker, Author, Mentor

I am passionate about exploring the solutions to the loneliness epidemic and Tech – [email protected] equation.

Therefore I am dedicated to facilitating global conversations about the challenges and solutions to the intimacy & loneliness crisis of digital reality – on both large international stages and at small intimate workshops and events. The solution I propose is to develop a set of skills included in Intimacy Intelligence.

I hold Intimacy Intelligence Training retreats in Europe and Asia.

As a passionate half Danish and half Colombian speaker, author and internationally recognized educator I am committed to inspire humans to solve the intimacy & loneliness crisis through teaching Intimacy Intelligence on both physical, emotional, spiritual - and technological levels. 

My bestselling book, of “Erogy: Make Your Sexuality Your Personal Strength”, provides the basis for my global mission.

A pioneer in my field, I implemented personal coaching on the largest television production companies in Denmark. I am a highly active public debater with more than 1 M  readers on a wide variety of media platforms in Denmark, where I have gotten the importance of physical touch on the agenda. For over two decades I have helped celebrities and other high performers on large live television programmes like X-Factor, to make the strongest possible impact and connect powerfully with their audience. 

I profoundly believe that global female leadership is the key to a more conscious human existence. Therefore, I am also dedicated to empower female leaders of the world to make a strong impact by balancing feminine and masculine energy in a world, where the fight for democracy has never been more critical.


"Lucy is an unique example of "practice what you preach". She is the original source of the strong power of erogy – connecting sex, heart and mind. She believes in courage as THE basic virtue and she has an unique ability to empower the people she works with to think big and act accordingly - personally and professionally. Easy to say – hard to do – for everybody but Lucy. "

Soren Schnedler
CEO, Gravity


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Will Artificial Intelligence lead to Artificial [email protected]?
Intimacy Intelligence:  Solving the tech – [email protected] equation.
We touch our phone more than we touch each other. Social robots are become becoming the new best friend - and sextech is even making sex with humans redundant. 

At the same time people are literaly dying of loneliness. 

In this talk we raise the critical question: 'How can we make technology work for us instead of against us?
I invite you to a must have conversation about the 5 keys to breaking the intimacy code on all levels, including the digital, by developing Intimacy Intelligence. 

Exploring and Creating Your [email protected] Love Language

How digital communication is defining human relating

We have spent thousands of years learning codes of conduct for real life relating. Presently we are clueless regarding digital norms and codes of conduct.

WhatsApp, IMessage and messenger communication can fuel love and it can fuel indifference. It can fuel belonging and it can fuel hurtful rejection. 

In this talk I invite you to a conversation about how digital communication can destroy your relationships, how it can support them, and how we can solve all hurdles with the Digital Love Language model .


Female Global Leadership – Shifting Paradigms
How feminine energy can support masculine driven leadership.  

Many female leaders feel so pressured to perform twice as much as their male colleagues and in their private lives, that they lose touch with their inner core.

Many lose motivation to unfold their leadership skills fully with the impact it deserves. But the world needs  relationship focused energy now more than ever.  

In this talk I invite female leaders from small businesses to large organisations to a conversation about the challenges and solutions to a stronger global female leadership that supports their influence in a masculine world. 


"Lucy does not only teach; she inspires with her example and transforms with her wisdom"

Marta Guitierrez
Sales Director

Upcoming events

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Professional Cuddling Training

NOV 2019


Intimacy Intelligence Event

NOV 2019


Sri Lanka Yoga & Intimacy Retreat

JAN 2019


"She challenges, provokes, supports and guides, all along with precision and timing. Good coaching is art, I experience Lucy as a great artist. "

Jesper Bjerregard


News, Inspiration & Perspectives

"Lucy made me look at my life holistically and helped me look at all the elements of my life that are essential to the serenity and positive changes I desire. I got some really game changing tools to maintain what I have learned and thereby unfold the best of me. I have used coaches to help me before. But with her unique calmness and empathy, Lucy has been able to help me far better than I have experienced before. It has been the most professional and human process I have ever tried."

Charlotte Petersen

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