Experiencing connection & fulfillment
While you change the world
for the better
... Is What I Want For You
In both your private life and
in your leadership.
My promise to you
I promise, that I will help you dismantle the patterns that are holding you back from unfolding your full potential and instead create the impact, trust and genuine connection and fulfillment in the most important relationships of your life - both as a leader and a human living in the volatile reality of the 21st century.
The world needs you mess-free so that you can truly start doing what you came here to do.
I walked the path and helped hundreds do the same. It will be an honor to help you as well.
Hi, I am Lucy
At 42, I pioneered as a high performance coach for the leading hosts and producers of the largest television shows in the industry (e.g. X-Factor, Dancing with the Stars). I had initiated the coaching program of DR, the Danish national broadcasting company and The Royal Danish Theatre. I traveled the world, coaching global CEOs, and had my own television show. And yes, I also bathed in lovers and enjoyed a glamorous social life.
The inside story, however, was that I had lost both money and the partner of my dreams. In my own view, I had screwed up my parenthood, had nothing valuable to give to the world, and partying hard was my version of 'coping with life'.
That was the survival state of my high-status mask: A life of despair, feeling excruciatingly lonely, feeling disorientated & disconnected.
Even though I had a prestigious career with dream clients and all the media coverage I could dream of - and even though I had all the education and done the self-growth work - life had become unbearable.
I needed change and I needed that change to last.
Time to cut to the bone.
Nailing Intimacy Intelligence for authentic professional impact and a good life.
Doing research for one of my books I came across remarkable studies pointing to the horrifying fact, that loneliness is literally killing us. How being severely lonely is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
I learned that digital connection is a multi trillion dollar business because it profits on making us addicted to the magic drug - connection. The drug that humans rely on for survival.
I understood that authentic high performance is about creating meaningful impact - by mastering the essential competency of becoming role models for creating an authentic connection. To your customers, to your boss, to your team, to your product, to your audience and to all the key persons in your private life.
My commitment to you and the world
Years of conducting workshops, studying the research, doing case studies and thousands of hours of client conversations suddenly condensed into an essential nerve.
Cut to the bone, what humanity needs is a powerful key to create trust and safety and experience both connection & fulfillment. That powerful key is what I call intimacy intelligence. Not in a sexual sense. But as the primary key to creating truth, trust, connection.
With that key you can create the impact of your dreams. In all areas of your life - both in your leadership and in your life.
Today I am committed to coach leaders, speak on conferences, online and IRL, write articles and books, host podcast & events to teach Intimacy Intelligence as the central - and necessary - key to a human future in a digital and volatile reality.
With the establishment of the first professional cuddling institute in Scandinavia I got the importance of non-sexual physical touch on the public agenda.
By having my own column on the largest media platform in Denmark and by becoming a leading debater on all leading media channels about the landscape of non-sexual physical touch, healthy intimacy and shame-free sexuality I have reached over a million readers and listeners in my corner of the world, Scandinavia.
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